7 tips to prepare your child for daycare

Sending your little one to daycare is a big moment, for both them and you. A child who has only known their home must now adapt to a new environment, new people, and a new routine. With good preparation, you can make this transition easier for everyone.

1. Talk about daycare positively

Explain to your child what awaits them: kind educators, other children to play with, and lots of fun toys. Keep it simple and optimistic. Don't worry if your child doesn't say much yet: they understand much more than they can say. Create positive associations before the first day.

2. Read books about daycare

Look for children's books featuring a favorite character who goes to daycare — maybe a little worried at first, then eventually enjoying it. Seeing a familiar character handle these feelings helps your child manage their own. If they're not interested in books right now, try another approach.

3. Visit the daycare in advance

Walk past the building together, point out the way, and if there's a playground, stop to watch the children playing. During this time, it's also helpful to spend more time with other children in general — at the playground or at friends' houses — so your little one gets used to seeing new faces and playing in groups.

4. Let your child choose their belongings

The daycare will provide you with a list of things to bring. Take your child shopping and let them choose some of them — offer two options rather than unlimited choice. Also bring their favorite toy or blanket, and don't wash it beforehand. The familiar smell of home can be a real comfort in a new environment.

5. Make the most of settling-in sessions

Most daycares offer settling-in sessions where you stay with your child as they get used to it. Take advantage of this. Gradually reduce the length of your presence over several visits. And don't schedule your first day back at work on the same day your child starts daycare — they need time to adapt, just like you.

6. Go gradually and be honest

Start with shorter sessions — two or three hours — before extending the duration. When you say goodbye, clearly state when you will return. Instead of saying "in three hours," say "after your snack" or "after your nap." Always say goodbye properly. Never leave in secret — this undermines trust and will make every future separation more difficult.

7. Be patient — with your child and with yourself

Adapting takes time, and there may be difficult days well beyond the first week. Trust the daycare staff — it's very common for children to stop crying as soon as their parents are out of sight. Your child is very sensitive to your emotions, so try to stay calm when dropping them off. If you find it very difficult, ask your partner, a grandparent, or another trusted person to handle the first drop-offs for you.